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30 Oct 2024

'Don't leave it to chance': Twins Dave and Pete urge men to find it early after double diagnosis

Far too many men are diagnosed with prostate cancer by total chance – and often when it’s too late for a cure. But if we take action to find it sooner, we can change the story and give men more time.

It was back in December 2021 that Dave and Pete’s prostate cancer story began. At the time they had no idea what was coming - and how it would change their lives forever. 

Pete, who had been treated for anaemia four years earlier, had been for a routine blood test. But when the results came back, he was shocked to learn he had an extremely high PSA level of 3,684. He was told he had stage 4 prostate cancer with bone metastasis. And only a few weeks later, he was given just six months to live. 

Soon after his diagnosis, Pete found out that men with Black ethnicity and a family history of prostate cancer were at higher risk. And because of their shared Caribbean heritage, Pete's twin brother Dave decided to get checked too. 

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‘Opting for removal was the best fit for me – it was a choice my brother never had’

Dave’s first PSA blood test showed no signs of concern. Neither did his second test a few months later. But in April 2023 the results of a third test showed a higher than normal PSA level. 

“Following further tests, including an MRI scan and a biopsy the day before I went on holiday, I received a diagnosis of stage 2 prostate cancer,” said Dave. “As a family we struggled with the news and everything that was happening. But we tried our best to stay strong.” 

Because Dave found his cancer early - before it could spread beyond the prostate - he had a number of treatment options. He chose to have his prostate removed through surgery and, 18 months later, he’s making good progress. 

“Opting for removal seemed the best fit for me personally and I’m now doing well,” said Dave. “It was a choice my brother unfortunately never had.” 

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My brother’s positivity is my motivation to raise awareness of prostate cancer
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Thankfully, more than two years on from his diagnosis, Pete is still with us. And his positive attitude to navigating prostate cancer has been a source of inspiration to his brother. 

That’s why Dave decided to get on his bike and cycle more than 170 miles to raise funds and awareness for Prostate Cancer UK. With incredible support from his local football club, Shrewsbury Town FC, family and friends helped Dave raise £2,400. The twins even appeared together in the club’s matchday programme and shared their story on TV and local radio.  

“Currently Pete is facing some challenges,” Dave added. “But his positivity is my motivation to contribute to raising awareness about prostate cancer. 

“After the cycle, a Shrewsbury Town supporter approached me before one of the football games. They told me that, due to the media coverage, they’d got tested and were diagnosed with prostate cancer early – which meant it could be treated. We really hope that with the awareness raised, it’s contributed to saving another life.” 

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Getting more men diagnosed early, just like Dave, could prevent up to 40% of prostate cancer deaths and save thousands of lives every year. And that's exactly what our latest TV advert is all about. Have you seen it yet?  
 
Our advert explains that too many men only get their diagnosis by chance – after it’s spread and when treatment options are limited. It shouldn’t be this way. 
 
With more funding for vital research – like our £42 million TRANSFORM study, the most comprehensive prostate cancer screening trial ever – we can boost the odds of finding prostate cancer earlier.  
 
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