Ally, 62, had radiotherapy and hormone therapy. He talks about how he dealt with the radiotherapy treatment. He also talks about how he stayed close to his wife, even though their sex life has changed whilst having radiotherapy and hormone therapy.

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Having radiotherapy: Ally's story

It is absolutely 100% and more that you stay positive.

Sex and prostate cancer: Ally's story

It is absolutely important that you talk about it. It isn’t something that you can just brush to one side and sweep it under the carpet or bury because it’s not going to go away.

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Martin's story

Martin, 58, had surgery, radiotherapy and hormone therapy which meant he couldn't get an erection and lost his desire for sex. He tried different treatments for erections and changed his approach to sex - discovering his more sensuous side.

If I’m positive in my head, that’s not the same as being positive in my heart. To feel positive in the heart - that to me, is key to this.

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