This booklet is for anyone who is close to a man with prostate cancer, whether you're a partner, family or friend. It looks at ways to support a man with prostate cancer, where to get further information and how to look after yourself.

Last updated: June 2015
To be reviewed: April 2019



Updated: June 2015 | Due for Review June 2018


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