Martin, 58, had surgery, radiotherapy and hormone therapy which meant he couldn't get an erection and lost his desire for sex. He tried different treatments for erections and changed his approach to sex - discovering his more sensuous side.

Sex and prostate cancer: Martin's story

If I’m positive in my head, that’s not the same as being positive in my heart. To feel positive in the heart - that to me, is key to this.

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Simon D'Arcy's story

"It was a complete shock when I was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer. If I had not seen the poster of the dripping tap in the pharmacy, I may not be here today."

I was a fit, active non-smoker when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer at the age of 58. I was stunned. I couldn't understand why it was me.

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