Coping with your diagnosis

Men respond in different ways to being diagnosed with prostate cancer. You may feel shocked, angry or scared. You may want to find out more about what treatments are available to you.

If you have any questions about your diagnosis you can ask your doctor or nurse at the hospital. Or you can call our Specialist Nurses.

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What is my outlook?

Many men will want to know how successful their treatment is likely to be. This is sometimes called your outlook or prognosis. No one will be able to tell you exactly what your outlook will be, as every cancer is different and it will depend on many things, such as the grade and stage of your cancer, and how quickly it is growing.

Not everyone will want to know about their outlook, but if you do, speak to your doctor. They will be able to talk to your about your own situation.

Localised prostate cancer

For many men with localised prostate cancer, treatment will get rid of the cancer. However, for some men treatment will be less successful, and the cancer may come back again. But there are further treatments available if your cancer does come back.

Locally advanced prostate cancer

Treatments for locally advanced prostate cancer aim to get rid of the cancer or control it long term. This will depend on how far your cancer has spread.

Advanced prostate cancer

While it is not possible to cure advanced prostate cancer, hormone therapy may control it for several years.

When hormone therapy stops working, there are other treatments available to keep the cancer under control for a further period of time. The aim of all these treatments is to control the cancer for as long as possible without making you feel too unwell from the side effects of the treatment. They also help to manage the symptoms of advanced prostate cancer.

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What support is available to me?

There is no right way to feel about being diagnosed with prostate cancer, and you may find that your feelings change over time. There is support available if you want it. Your family may also need some support.

Talking about it

Many men find that talking about their cancer can help. You might get all the back-up you need from a partner, friend or relative. But, some men find it difficult to share their feelings with someone close and prefer to talk to someone else.

You and your family can speak to one of our Specialist Nurses. They can help you understand your diagnosis and the emotional effects of cancer. You might also find it helps to talk to your nurse, doctor or GP about how you are feeling. If you would like some more support, they may be able to put you in touch with a counsellor.

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Talking to someone affected by prostate cancer

Talking to someone with similar experiences might help. Our support volunteers are all personally affected by prostate cancer. They are trained to listen and offer support over the telephone.

You can also join our online community where you can share your experiences with other men and their families.

There are prostate cancer support groups across the country, where you can meet other people affected by prostate cancer.

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Practical support

You might find that changing your diet gives you more control over your body and is something that you can do for yourself. Eating a healthy, balanced diet and being physically active will benefit your overall health and might help slow down the growth of the cancer. Diet and physical activity might also help you cope with the side effects of treatment and any feelings of anxiety.

If you live in England and are having treatment for cancer, including treatment for the symptoms of cancer or treatment for the side effects of a cancer treatment, you are entitled to free prescriptions. You will need to apply for a medical exemption certificate. Ask your doctor for a FP92A form. Once you have filled out the form, your doctor will need to sign it, and you will be sent the certificate. If you live in Scotland, Wales or Northern Ireland, all prescriptions are free.

Read more about emotional and practical issues.

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References

You can find a full list of references used to produce this page in our online fact sheet.